Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Why all girls reject love when we propose for first time. i mean why they will ask time.?

 All girls do not reject a proposal when it is made the first time...this happens only under certain circumstances...

I believe girls are more mature & reasonable than men at the same age...I am a guy and yet I say this...

If you have just gotten to know a girl and propose to her immediately, chances are she will reject you as she has not gotten to know you properly...she will also not be able to believe that you love her as you have not even had time to know her properly...so she will think that either you are immature or insincere...she might then ask for time to think about it or reject you outright...

If even after knowing a girl well, she rejects a proposal, it could be because she is genuinely not interested or has certain inhibitions...in such cases, the best way is to get to know a girl properly, get to know what she is looking for (steady boyfriend or just for temporary phase), what qualities she desires in her guy etc...you can then develop those qualities and let her know, in subtle manner that you possess those qualities...she will probably than be interested and give you hints...you can then propose and get lucky...

If even after all these, the girl rejects and still continues to flirt, it means that the girl is stringing you around (playing with your feelings) so just dump her...on the other hand, if she rejects and then gives you the cold-shoulder, it means that you have misread the situation and she does not see any potential in you...you can then continue as a friend...

I proposed to my girl friend and she accepted (the first time) because I did it in the proper manner...today she is my wife for the last 4 years...

Try and put yourself in the shoes of the girl you are going to propose...if you were in her place, how would you react...then go with your gut feeling...
Source(s):
Lots of Personal experience...

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